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At two months your baby will be able to see things clearly across the room, and at three months they’ll start to stay awake longer, and take more interest in the world around them. At this time, they also begin to realize they are individuals...separate from mom.
Typically around four months or so, babies enter a developmental stage where they become interested in learning about anything and everything around them.
They wiggle, squirm, reach, and turn their heads at every noise and movement. All of these things can contribute to a distracted baby at feeding time. When distraction occurs around eight to 10 months, it can lead moms to think they are ready to be weaned, however this is temporary disinterest. It’s rare for a baby younger than 12 months to self-wean.
Babble contributor Rebekahku Schmider shares some games babies like to play while breastfeeding. You may recognize some of these habits. While babies may enjoy this, for moms it can grow old…fast. Occasionally the habit grows into a real problem; the baby struggles with latching on, and can even refuse to nurse.
So, what can moms do to get their baby’s attention? Here are some tips on how to get your distracted baby to focus. Babble contributor Lauren Jimeson also offers a few tips.
Nurse as soon as your little one wakes up whether it’s in the morning or from naps. They are more likely to be calm.
Find a quiet area where your baby is less likely to find something (or someone) to distract them.
Maintain eye contact so your baby doesn't try to find something in the room to keep their attention. They will be focused on you instead.
Sing or speak to your baby. This could help get and keep their attention on you.
Try different positions so your baby doesn't get bored. It’s something new and your baby is less likely to get distracted. One position in particular, the football clutch, can be helpful because you have more control of their head.
Nursing a distracted baby can be overwhelming and frustrating, but you can find ways to create an environment where both you can both relax. The period of distraction is merely a phase in your child’s development. You are doing a good job. And your baby is just doing what is normal.